by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, healing, letting go, self-love |
I come from a long line of women who lived life on their own terms, often choosing the unconventional over the conventional. This meant following their hearts, what they truly loved, then with a quiet fierceness, just lived. My grandmothers, great-grandmothers –...
by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, dating, healing, love, relationships, self-love |
I used to date a lot … before I got married, before there was a child. It was fun. There were interesting guys that I had interesting conversations with. There were even the few dodgy men that were – well – dodgy. Along the way, I learned which characteristics were...
by Rebecca Cavender | divine feminine, healing, love, relationships, self-love |
Imagination is the seed of dreams. Allowing yourself to imagine can feel vulnerable, dangerous, risky. You put your desires out there and hope that when you blow, seeds will spread for the good of your heart, dreams will come true, and grow to protect you, keep...
by Rebecca Cavender | big girls, dating, divorce, healing, love, relationships, self-love |
There is a crazy amount of ridiculousness online about dating big girls, loving big girls, how to talk to big girls, how you better stay away from big girls, how guys only like big girls in secret … you get the point. I’ve read that an advantage of being with a...
by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, self-love |
Hi. My name is Becky and I sometimes don’t believe or accept that I’m worthy of positive things. Maybe you struggle with this, too. See, if you express to me I’m beautiful, smart, funny … you’ll get a “it’s very kind of you to say that.” Describe me as a...
by Rebecca Cavender | divorce, divorcing, ex, ex-husband, gratitude, healing, letter, love, relationships, self-love |
Dear You, We met 12 years ago today in that little coffee shop next to the ferry. I saw you through the large window, sitting calmly in your independence, your head gently bent over a book on global issues. Your big ideas, your worldly view and experiences, your...
