by Rebecca Cavender | healing, intuition, love, relationships, self-love |
Dear Nice Girl: You know who you are. You’re the one who helps the elderly couple struggling to carry their luggage up the stairs. You’re the girl who calls after a truck full of strangers to give them the book that flew out the back. (Maybe it was important to...
by Rebecca Cavender | love, relationships, self-love |
Life can be unclear, muddied, filled with unknowns. When challenges hit, your sense of direction is thwarted by uncertainty; it feels personal, like life is picking a fight with you … and it’s winning. You’re left nursing a raw vulnerability that leads down the dark...
by Rebecca Cavender | dating, relationships, self-love, vulnerability
Sometimes, we get down on ourselves and think – for whatever reasons – others may not find us attractive. Attractiveness isn’t about your clothing size or your hair. It’s how you carry yourself. A sense of believing in who you are, knowing that you are...
by Rebecca Cavender | devotion, divine feminine, healing, love, self-love |
You don’t have to be a size 8, have a big ass and large breasts, a small waist, wildly swing your hips, and show copious amounts of cleavage to entice a man. I’m not saying those things aren’t sexy. Of course they are; but there’s much more to what makes a woman...
by Rebecca Cavender | healing, relationships, self-love |
Sometimes you have to be brave. Get clear about what you really want and say the truth about it. When you acknowledge your true desires, you have to make room for them in your life. That isn’t always easy. In fact, it might hurt. It might mean letting go of something...
by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, death, healing, love, self-love, suicide |
She shot herself that March. At 14, whatever pain clawed inside her, my cousin believed hunting it down, releasing it with a bullet from the chamber, was her answer. Our family and her friends were left behind to grieve. We took on her hurt and let it explode in anger...
