by Rebecca Cavender | healing, love, relationships, self-love |
You don’t have to be perfect. None of us are. And you don’t need all the answers. It’s impossible to expect that you’ll make all of the very best decisions all of the time. You won’t. Sometimes, our fear of getting too close to someone – or our fear of losing them –...
by Rebecca Cavender | healing, intuition, love, relationships, self-love |
Dear Nice Girl: You know who you are. You’re the one who helps the elderly couple struggling to carry their luggage up the stairs. You’re the girl who calls after a truck full of strangers to give them the book that flew out the back. (Maybe it was important to...
by Rebecca Cavender | love, relationships, self-love |
Life can be unclear, muddied, filled with unknowns. When challenges hit, your sense of direction is thwarted by uncertainty; it feels personal, like life is picking a fight with you … and it’s winning. You’re left nursing a raw vulnerability that leads down the dark...
by Rebecca Cavender | dating, relationships, self-love, vulnerability
Sometimes, we get down on ourselves and think – for whatever reasons – others may not find us attractive. Attractiveness isn’t about your clothing size or your hair. It’s how you carry yourself. A sense of believing in who you are, knowing that you are...
by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, friendships, relationships
It’s frightening to imagine the sort of mother I’d be, the romantic relationships I’d have (or still be in), and what ill-fitting, out-of-fashion clothes and badly-colored, permed hair I’d flaunt … were it not for my girlfriends. Certainly, I wouldn’t know childhood...
by Rebecca Cavender | devotion, divine feminine, love, relationships |
Love is a choice, he said. You decide to love someone and stick with it. It’s simple: Be loyal and commit. Make it work. I get loyalty. I get commitment. Though it takes a long time to reel me in enough to capture mine, once I’m there … I’m there. I’m all in. It’s a...
