by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, break up letter to all the men, breaking up, changing life, changing stories, divorcing, dreams, ex, healing, letting go, loss, love, saying what you need to say, self esteem, self-love, vulnerability |
Dearest You,It’s been awhile since we’ve talked. Really talked. I wish we could sit in that café where we shared a loveseat; I rested my head upon your wide shoulders and you slowly inhaled the scent of my hair, kissing the top of my head. Or we could meet in my car...
by Rebecca Cavender | divine feminine, intuition, letting go, surrender, trust, truth |
The Unknown is a tricky place. It’s full of … well … unknowns. It’s vast and wide open. The structured, tidy World of Certainty feels more comfortable, fixed. A linear path is set-out with clear instructions and all you have to do is follow them so that you get from...
by Rebecca Cavender | a woman alone, acceptance, big girls, healing, integrity, letting go, self-love, vulnerability |
I stood naked today. In front of a tall, full length mirror. No preliminary glance, no quick retreat. Shame wasn’t allowed. While I see myself nude daily, it’s in a half mirror that sits above the bathroom sink. It allows me to focus on the parts of my body I’m...
by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, healing, letting go, self-love |
I come from a long line of women who lived life on their own terms, often choosing the unconventional over the conventional. This meant following their hearts, what they truly loved, then with a quiet fierceness, just lived. My grandmothers, great-grandmothers –...
by Rebecca Cavender | death, divorce, healing, letting go, relationships |
This business of letting go isn’t always easy. Sometimes it takes on its own form, as though the thing which you need to let go is on one end of a string pulling at your chest, a tug of war, a sense of trying to reign in what needs to just … be. On...
