by Rebecca Cavender | divorce, healing, relationships, single parent, vulnerability |
It’s at night, after my daughter is tucked into bed, I turn down the lights to cuddle under a blanket, reach for the remote, and it hits: absence. I briefly acknowledge my empty sofa with a sigh. Usually, it’s just fine. Usually, I enjoy the time alone and choose...
by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, change, healing |
When chaos hits us straight on, it’s a reminder to take a look at what’s brewing within. To see what’s shaking up inside our hearts and our minds. Usually it means change is upon us, that we’re transitioning, there are lessons to be learned, and slowing down is...
by Rebecca Cavender | divine feminine, healing, love, relationships, self-love |
Imagination is the seed of dreams. Allowing yourself to imagine can feel vulnerable, dangerous, risky. You put your desires out there and hope that when you blow, seeds will spread for the good of your heart, dreams will come true, and grow to protect you, keep...
by Rebecca Cavender | big girls, dating, divorce, healing, love, relationships, self-love |
There is a crazy amount of ridiculousness online about dating big girls, loving big girls, how to talk to big girls, how you better stay away from big girls, how guys only like big girls in secret … you get the point. I’ve read that an advantage of being with a...
by Rebecca Cavender | death, divorce, healing, letting go, relationships |
This business of letting go isn’t always easy. Sometimes it takes on its own form, as though the thing which you need to let go is on one end of a string pulling at your chest, a tug of war, a sense of trying to reign in what needs to just … be. On...
by Rebecca Cavender | divorce, divorcing, ex, ex-husband, gratitude, healing, letter, love, relationships, self-love |
Dear You, We met 12 years ago today in that little coffee shop next to the ferry. I saw you through the large window, sitting calmly in your independence, your head gently bent over a book on global issues. Your big ideas, your worldly view and experiences, your...
