by Rebecca Cavender | dating, healing the masculine + feminine, promises, relationships, self-love |
There are certain promises you cannot make. You cannot promise that you will always be there. You cannot promise that you will always love someone, exactly the same way you love them today. You cannot promise that you will never hurt them. These are the false...
by Rebecca Cavender | dating, relationships, self-love, vulnerability
Sometimes, we get down on ourselves and think – for whatever reasons – others may not find us attractive. Attractiveness isn’t about your clothing size or your hair. It’s how you carry yourself. A sense of believing in who you are, knowing that you are...
by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, dating, healing, love, relationships, self-love |
I used to date a lot … before I got married, before there was a child. It was fun. There were interesting guys that I had interesting conversations with. There were even the few dodgy men that were – well – dodgy. Along the way, I learned which characteristics were...
by Rebecca Cavender | dating, divorce, love, parenting, relationships, single parent |
“Mom, you know how you told me some boys at school might act a little mean, but really, they likeyou? Well, I guess you’re right,” my daughter said after school yesterday, as she buckled her seat belt. Eying her from the rear-view mirror, I asked what happened. ...
by Rebecca Cavender | big girls, dating, divorce, healing, love, relationships, self-love |
There is a crazy amount of ridiculousness online about dating big girls, loving big girls, how to talk to big girls, how you better stay away from big girls, how guys only like big girls in secret … you get the point. I’ve read that an advantage of being with a...