by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, self-love |
Hi. My name is Becky and I sometimes don’t believe or accept that I’m worthy of positive things. Maybe you struggle with this, too. See, if you express to me I’m beautiful, smart, funny … you’ll get a “it’s very kind of you to say that.” Describe me as a...
by Rebecca Cavender | death, divorce, healing, letting go, relationships |
This business of letting go isn’t always easy. Sometimes it takes on its own form, as though the thing which you need to let go is on one end of a string pulling at your chest, a tug of war, a sense of trying to reign in what needs to just … be. On...
by Rebecca Cavender | divorce, divorcing, ex, ex-husband, gratitude, healing, letter, love, relationships, self-love |
Dear You, We met 12 years ago today in that little coffee shop next to the ferry. I saw you through the large window, sitting calmly in your independence, your head gently bent over a book on global issues. Your big ideas, your worldly view and experiences, your...
by Rebecca Cavender | death, divorce, healing, moving home, moving on |
The beginning is usually exciting, but uncomfortable, as you navigate your way through the new environment. Eventually, you settle in, make friends, find your niche, know which places to get coffee, adjust to the weather. Moving back home is different. The...
by Rebecca Cavender | death, grandparents, healing, love, relationships |
Death makes you feel completely out of control. Control is rendered null and void when you see your 95 year old grandmother’s perfect pink and white casket get lifted up and pushed deeply into a cement crypt. When the mortician begins to seal the crypt, it...
