by Rebecca Cavender | uncategorized |
Hi Everyone! I’m excited to announce a new service that I’m offering: Relationship Coaching. The focus is working with individuals who are in transition, a state of change, and feel a pull to realign … to get back in touch with their true desires. I...
by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, death, healing, love, self-love, suicide |
She shot herself that March. At 14, whatever pain clawed inside her, my cousin believed hunting it down, releasing it with a bullet from the chamber, was her answer. Our family and her friends were left behind to grieve. We took on her hurt and let it explode in anger...
by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, healing, letting go, self-love |
I come from a long line of women who lived life on their own terms, often choosing the unconventional over the conventional. This meant following their hearts, what they truly loved, then with a quiet fierceness, just lived. My grandmothers, great-grandmothers –...
by Rebecca Cavender | acceptance, dating, healing, love, relationships, self-love |
I used to date a lot … before I got married, before there was a child. It was fun. There were interesting guys that I had interesting conversations with. There were even the few dodgy men that were – well – dodgy. Along the way, I learned which characteristics were...
by Rebecca Cavender | divorce, healing, relationships, single parent, vulnerability |
It’s at night, after my daughter is tucked into bed, I turn down the lights to cuddle under a blanket, reach for the remote, and it hits: absence. I briefly acknowledge my empty sofa with a sigh. Usually, it’s just fine. Usually, I enjoy the time alone and choose...